The Journey of an immigrant- Part II

The Saudi feeling is starting to sink in; well you can never really get that feeling in you entirely. True to belief it felt like I had been sentenced to a one year rigorous imprisonment in a minimum security prison. The camp was a compound by the Red Sea, a set of box modular structures and I could imagine this to be another Gulag with less security. Have you ever been kicked in the mouth by a rampant horse?

The inner conditions do not get too better as days transition into weeks and weeks transition into months. I could never really come to grips with that life especially in those surroundings. I would actually thrive in these conditions decades later but in 1995 I left myself for dead. A few thing to write about would be the weekend trips to the port city of Jeddah which was trying its best to look like fast food America and the air conditioned malls I had not been in before. Jeddah is also the home to the infamous “Chop Chop Square” where convicted rapists and petty criminals have their heads or hands cut off.

Mecca the holy city for Moslems was not too far from the camp I was in, where the signs to the checkpost proclaiming “For Moslems Only” still stirs an ominous feeling inside me. The tranquility in midst of this temptest was the lucid turquoise waters of the Red Sea and I was even blessed to catch a few views of Flying Fish, which I had only seen in one of my favorite TinTin publication, “The Red Sea Sharks”. After all these years when I stop long enough to delve on my Saudi experience I am convinced it wasn’t Saudi, it was me that kicked myself into this baleful whirlpool of darkness.

And just as I reckoned, it was rock bottom and the only way after this episode was to lift myself and at least see the azure skies of hope.

Alexandria

My journey took me next on a teaser trip to which eventually was going to become my home eventually but that cold dark January evening when I landed at Dulles, Washington DC I wasn’t so sure. Just as I had experienced dealing with cabbies back home, I was sure the guy would cheat my precious $75 out of me.So of course as the taxi starts, the guy in all likelihood is attempting to be friendly and asked me if this was my first trip to the US. And me, in all my devious bent, say “Oh yeah, I have been here several times, in fact I love the east coast and of the west coast cities, Chicago is my favorite city.” Deathly silence and that was the last exchange we had for the rest of the journey. The names he may have called me under his breath, I don’t think I would have been able to repeat. However, being in the promised land sent a shiver of optimism through my veins. It was going to last, I hoped as I-495 beltway outside the taxi looked like a parade of pearls and rubies.

—To be continued…

1933 vs 2016

U.S.A-

I bet most of you have seen and read enough these past few months the charades , the drama, the squabbles of the GOP Presidential campaign.

Like the debates aren’t enough, we have these Trump’s rallies to deal with. I swear I kid you not, having been an avid follower of World War-II and rise of Fascism, I cannot help but draw several parallels between the movie clips from the 1930’s. When President Hindenberg was overrun was Adolf’s Brown shirts and how rallies turned into machinery of mass propaganda. So what’s different. Well the clips from the 1930’s were in black and white and now I get to see everything in some HD colors.

The venom spewing out of Trump’s mouth catering to millions of Americans that are most likely ill informed and generating mass hysteria is surely no different on how Hitler prayed into the minds of Germans still reeling from the aftermath of defeatism. Under the guise of first amendment and freely abetting “protestors taken out” may resonate well with angry masses but leaders , statesmen on an international stage. This is a scary scenario!

Can he now after the Chicago fiasco attempt to take the high road and goad his supporters to stay put and not get taken in by the protests and resort to punching people in the face. Instead taking the high road would probably be the best response and not continue the unabashed provocative rhetoric that has symbolized his campaign so much.

And then he has the gall to speak of unifying the U.S.A.Its Saturday morning and I can hear Trump addressing his followers at this rally in Vandalia, Ohio. Not much has changed and his tirade continues and now I am more than sure that this will not lead us to unification. In fact I fear a severe Whites v/s the rest. Schism along race and religion is what this could very well lead to.

Having said all that, protestors could very well should not have taken to getting into fisticuffs and creating this mass chaos. For all you know, sensing the Trump support’s moods, this may turn right against them and help him win Ohio this Super Tuesday comprehensively. I am not a political animal but when I see people being led by incendiary rhetoric, I get upset I get angry and not to mention what it does to this country’s status and dignity in the international community.

And Mr Trump- Please stop the name calling. They are your compadres and they mean well too if you do.

Bottomline, let us enjoy this democracy lets be all able to express freely without fear. While we can all have differing views on policies; climate change, guns, Obamacare, abortion, lets be human , lets be Americans. God bless America.

Bon Appetit- Washington DC

I am no critic, I do not belong to Zagat nor do I claim to have any special taste buds extraordinaire. But as an avid foodie, bent on exploring international cuisines in the DC region I present to you what’s yum and what’s not.

Washington DC has for sure, a lot to offer to tickle taste buds of someone who has limited meat eating abilities, not necessarily  finicky but certainly limited. Speaking from the perspective of someone who grew up in middle class cosmopolitan India, there was absolutely zero exposures to anything outside the traditional north Indian cuisines. Well may be Indian version of Chinese may have crept in towards the mid 80s. That’s about it. So with that as the backdrop, I am freely experimenting anything that DC has on offer. Indian food or curry houses are dime a dozen and have spawned across the region and even sordid looking places which actually could be sorry excuses for food are seen around the several strip malls in the area.

Indians as stereotypical as they may be lend credibility to this word. The only “eating out” is getting all excited at the sight of an Indian restaurant and of course when the weekend buffets are on offer, the trails of saliva have been known to resemble a Mumbai monsoons.

Getting out of the box and willing to venture out takes some doing, a bit of daredevilry accompanied by some adventure. Having done this for over 12 years now, I am going to stick my neck out and offer my opinions. Opinions as they they say is free but my only underlying message to people who have not been too exposed to some rather exotic cuisine is “just try it”. It may not turn on your palate but the trip and ambience are most certainly worth the efforts. And eating at the food courts do not count.

Italian- Maggiano’s, Chevy Chase- Awesome ambience, great wines and great value for your $$

Thai- Mai Thai, Georgetown- Great variety of dishes for the veggies too, with that warm Saki to wash it all down

Indian- Rasika, Westend (Dupont circle)- You need to plan for this, you have to book weeks in advance if you want to get in for prime time dinner slot. A little on the expensive side but this place blows me away all the time

Ethiopian- Try Das, M St, Georgetown- Its not too dissimilar to some version of Indian grub. Spicy for sure and the townhome settings makes it for an amazing experience.

Turkish- Zaytinya, 9th St NW, DC- Small portions, great wine selections and some super mouth watering appies and entrees. Its a lively place and brings cheer to the inner self. Still have to book a few weeks in advance to get in at a decent hour.

Peruvian- The spice levels of the food at the Cochina is a place for a special occasion.Not too much for the veggies though.Bit pricy, I suppose.

Asian fusion- Banana Leaf, Florida Ave- A nice informal townhome setting, the array of choices from a fusion cuisine of Malay, Indonesian, Thai and Japanese is an absolute must for the curry munchers or the not not so curry inclined too.

Now if you were to decide to go for a mean steak or lobsters, your options grow exponentially.

Bon Appetit!

 

An interview- Heath Suddleson

LDRHeath Suddleson is a management leadership consultant and a published author as well. Heath comes off as a gregarious personality, gets along with people like a house on fire and seems to have a degree in people. He shares his thoughts with us today.

  • What is your profession and tell me about yourself, your background

I turn project managers into project leaders. I am a professional trainer for leadership development in the project management space.  For more than 25 years I have managed design and construction projects all over the world.  In addition to being in some leadership positions in the corporate space, I have held many leadership positions with Not For Profit organizations.  In one of these global Not For Profits, I served on their International Board of Directors.

 

  • What drove you to choose this career path? As my job required me to conduct more and more training, I realized how much I loved doing the training more than the project support. One benefit was that when I was conducting so much training there were fewer project demands I needed to meet, which lowered my stress level. Still, the biggest benefit was actually seeing those “ah ha” moments in the classroom as people began to connect the dots. There are few rewards greater than knowing you have helped someone improve themselves and their lives.

 

  • Have you moved a lot for your profession and do you like travelling?

I have changed companies more than a few times, in part because I didn’t want to move my home. In the construction industry, it is difficult to always stay in one area because you need to go where the work is located.  Wanting to stay home based, it did cause me to do a lot more travel.  In some aspects, the travel is great and you get to see exciting parts of the world and experience different cultures.  However, there is a dark and lonely side to travel that takes a toll on the body and the soul.  Spending so many countless nights eating dinner alone, not seeing your family, not being there for the plays and piano recitals of your kids all makes the road that much harder.  Now that I own my own company, I have more control over when I travel, how often, and how long each trip will be.  That makes the travel more fun again.

 

  • What in your opinion are the three major traits to be successful in your profession? To be successful as a trainer, there are three levels of mastery. The first is to be a subject matter expert. There are some out there who think that if you can present well you can speak about anything, but the truth is that your credibility is based on what you have accomplished and what you can teach others who have similar experiences. When teaching technical skills in the workplace you will not be the only expert in the room.  Lose the confidence in those other experts and you will quickly lose the class.  You have to know your stuff.  The second level of mastery is to be an engaging presenter.  Especially in the engineering fields, many presenters are lack luster and some are just plain boring.  If you are going to present for hours on end, you better be entertaining and engaging.  The third level of mastery is to be a trainer.  Again, there are misconceptions that if you have the first two levels licked then it’s easy to be a trainer, but it is a completely different set of goals to be able to gauge the knowledge gap and when you find one know how to fill it.  You need to be able to adjust material based on the class attendance and not just the slides.  Being a true trainer is to master all three levels.

 

  • What have been your biggest challenges over the course of your career?

The biggest challenge over my career has been learning to deal with difficult people and to not become one myself. The construction industry is filled with people who lack people skills.  On some projects and in some companies, those who are the harshest to deal with are sometimes celebrated, which only promotes less focus on human capital.  Of course, those people cost the company money in ways unseen through high turnover of staff, loss of continuity, and sometimes even lost clients.

 

  • Would you recommend this profession to young hopefuls?

The construction industry, yes. It is a great industry if you want a lot of great opportunities to work on projects that have real meaning to people.  There is a sense of satisfaction when you go see a completed project and know that you were part of the team that made that happen.  The pay is good and the chance to travel is great.  Just know that it will be long hours and high stress at times.

 

  • What is your advice to young graduates and professionals?

My advice to graduates and young professionals is to do something you truly enjoy. If you love what you do, and you are doing what you love, you will do it with passion and inspiration.   Because you are putting so much of yourself into your work, it will be recognized and you will be rewarded.  Millennials seem to understand the concept of work-life balance more than previous generations.  There may be some changes in the workplace coming as a result of this that will be seen in another decade.  Why this is important is because those people who succeed the most are those who can see where the market is going more than where the market is now.  See where it is going and put yourself on the leading edge.

Snap poll- Your opinions matter

What, in your opinion, is the most significant issue facing mankind today?

  1. ViolenceIMG_0608

  2. Hunger/Starvation

  3. Climate change

  4. Commodity prices (Oil, minerals)

  5. Economic disparity

  6. Disease